survive

August 29 2025

Chronicle of our Lives and Surviving the Torment we went through from Criminals around the world.

Timeline of when I met spouse Aaron Wall, him meeting Stella Huh and having moving all over the place

  • 2006 – I bought Aarons ebook because I ran a profitable kitchen cabinet company
  • Nov 2006 – We met in Bay Area
  • He Stayed in our house for a week and became an item
  • Dec 2006 – I helped him pack from PA to CA
  • Jan 2007 – He moved to Oakland
  • April 2007 – Went to concert
  • Weeks later, met Stella Huh thru me. I’ve only known Stella for about a year and a half. We’d hang out 2-3x/month before I met Aaron and it stopped after meeting him. They ended up not liking each other according to an email she sent.
  • May 4 2007 – Stella Huh’s bday, we didn’t attend.
  • May 5 2007 – We got engaged. He proposed. Up until this day, we were intimate daily.
  • Stella always calls to “complain” allegedly about partner whom Ive never met. Aaron and I stopped having sex.
  • July 2 2007 – We got married in Alameda County courthouse
  • October 2007 – I picked up Stella from the airport in manila at 4am. I noticed that as soon as I dropped her to her hotel, she ran and opened her laptop to chat with someone ASAP. Ignored me so I left. She wasn’t happy to see me.
  • Mid 2009 – Stella moved to LA
  • June 2010 – Aaron wanted to be away from the Bay Area so we moved to the Philippines
  • Mid 2011 – Stella moved back from LA to the Bay Area
  • Nov 2011 – Aaron wanted to move back to the US because he was afraid of possible riots in the Philippines. I told him Filipinos are peaceful but we moved anyway.

Back in the US

During this time, Aaron would spend between 4-6hrs playing basketball daily at the ymca, sometimes he’d come home late. I just let it be. From late 2011 until December 2015, I only saw Stella Huh twice. She would text maybe once every few months.

December 27 2015, We moved back to the Philippines because I had a company in HK and Aaron was afraid allegedly of the IRS. I told him that all we had to do was report because I didn’t take any dividends out and we had a lawyer anyway. He was insisting that we move to the Philippines and that I had to give up my green card later that year 2016. A month before we left the US, Stella knew I was leaving yet I never told her. We didn’t meet to say good bye but she wished me well via email.

Aaron was always out, from September 2015 till the day we left. Since he didn’t know what I’d like for Christmas despite being married for 8 years, he had to bring my mom with him to buy me an orange

Lonely in the Philippines

Lonely at age 35, I thought it would be a good time to have a baby though IVF. December 2016 we went to London when I was 5mos pregnant to have Aaron meet his friend Chris. Later that December, I had to surrender my US greencard.

We got lucky and had Aja at the first attempt, she was born April 7 2017.

Before we moved to the Philippines, Aaron invested 100K UK GBP to his friend, he only told me months later. His friend was allegedly making 1%/day. Aaron wanted all my money in the US, around $2.5M and invested with Christopher Angus. Aaron also invested $800K of his money. It was all we had in the US. This occurred until Aja was 6mos old in mid 2017 when we learned of the fraud. Chris only spent less than 2yrs in jail. I was heartbroken and stunned and speechless.

  • NYE 2021, Aja asked if it’s ok if the nanny doesn’t return from her break
  • March 2022 – I found out Aja was being sexually assaulted and raped by her caregiver. I discovered when Aja and I were playing tickle. I tickled her on the neck and when it was her turn, she grabbed my crotch area. I was so shocked my smile turned upside down and was mentally preparing myself on what’s about to happen.
  • Without uttering a word, at age 4, tears ran down her face. She was afraid to say who did it to her.